Dating and mating games
An average woman is as physically vulnerable to an average guy as a big guy (6’0″, 190 pounds) would be to the average NFL lineman (6’5″, 310 pounds)—which is to say, Most dating advice to guys fails at this first hurdle.
It’s built around the assumption that men and women think alike about sex, romance and dating without even acknowledging the basic physical differences between male and female bodies and the resulting male vs. For instance, if a woman seems like she’s sending “mixed messages,” or acting “hot and cold,” or there’s a mysterious push-me/pull-you erotic dance going on, it’s not that she’s being weird or manipulative (at least, typically).
It will help you have better dates, cooler conversations and hotter sex.
Soon enough, you’ve had a couple drinks, and some of these huge guys approach you and begin talking to you. Some of them are really interesting and fun; they do amazing things with their lives and seem to really be into you. They have that sublime masculine energy that is very appealing.
Some of them are really lame and unattractive and make crude, ham-fisted passes at you. Some of the same male traits that frighten you the most also seem to be the most attractive to you.
While this is just a thought experiment, the facts that underpin it are very real. 166 pounds), and he carries less body fat (18 percent vs.
For Americans over age 20, the average man is five inches taller than the average woman (5’9″ vs. 24 percent), so he’s got about twice the upper-body strength (what he’d use to pick her up) and twice the grip strength (what he’d use to hold her down).