Do you turn dating into relationship
For a while there was "sensitive new age guy." Then there was "metrosexual" and advice that men need to develop their feminine side. I looked in the commentary at the bottom of the page which quoted the Talmud, "If the man is worthy, the woman will be his helper; if he is not worthy, she will be against him." This one sentence changed the way I looked at relationships. I think it's significant that one of the first lessons in the first chapter of Genesis is about what a man should be in a relationship.I've heard married men advise younger men that the key to a happy marriage is: "Yes, dear." I've received emails filled with jokes that ridicule men -- like what's the difference between a man and fine wine? On television, we've gone from Father Knows Best, where the father was a wise caring man who could do no wrong, to Homer Simpson, a buffoon who can do nothing right. He asked God for a wife and God created Eve to be an "ezer k'negdo" -- a helper opposing him or a helper against him (Genesis, ). My search led me to discover a lot of timeless wisdom that for generations fathers taught their sons -- wisdom that is so relevant today.
“If there are things wrong in the relationship, taking a pill or spraying something into your nose won’t fix the problem,” says Stephanie Buehler, a sex therapist in Orange County, California. Krychman believes there are several things a man can do to help.
When she asks for input on a decision, he says, "It's up to you." He wants to be nice but he doesn't realize he's frustrating her. Like a lot of men these days, I received so many messages on what a man in a relationship should be, I was bewildered. If a man works on himself and develops himself to be worthy, the woman will be his partner. What happens next in the world's first relationship? They have one commandment: Don't eat the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge. You're not responsible for what happened." Just the opposite.
Every few years, the media tells us new ideas about what a man should be. He punishes Adam for eating the fruit, and for not using his own judgment.
When it comes to sex, the little blue pill may have taken the heat off men, but what if your wife is having trouble in the bedroom?
According to a Yale study, one in two women experience some sort of sexual dysfunction (such as lack of desire, vaginal dryness, or an inability to orgasm), and experts say it is caused by everything from stress to insomnia to birth-control pills.