Im 19 dating 30 year old
Wilt Chamberlin may have been a great basketball player, but he’s for his supposed number of conquests. Sure, he may have created one of the most iconic rock bands in history and written songs that continue to resonate with each generation of listeners… For them, sex is commodified as an equivalent to purity: the less sex she has had, the higher her value.A virgin, therefore, is the ultimate expression of virtue and goodness (and thus priceless) and any woman who has an excessive number of sex partners (for a suitably subjective value of “excessive”) is degraded.Still others may have never so much as held hands with someone who wasn’t a family member.
To be a virgin is no different, ultimately, from never having eaten Chinese food or having been to Disneyland.
Steve Carrell’s character may be middle-aged with a steady job, a sizable apartment, a car and presumably relatively debt free…
but because he’s never managed to actually penetrate a woman, he’s still obsessed with “childish” things.
I’ve talked about how women should value nice guys a little more. Telling women to value nice guys more is like telling men to value older, heavier women more. At the end of the day, we all have two choices: stay exactly as we are right now and wait until we find someone who appreciates us, or adjust who we are to become appealing to more people.
You’ve had a lot of time to think about this, my friend. In fact, the biggest problem you have surrounding sex is that you’re making WAY too big a deal about it. You need to make up for lost time and catch up with what everyone else was doing from 14-21.